Women often stay in relationships because they fear what society will say about them. In many regions of the world, women are known to be secretive and tolerant in their marriages. Most women wouldn’t want to admit that they are separating or divorcing their partners.
America and Europe as a whole are known to have empowered women who would not shy away from facing a divorce or separation however, in reality it’s always difficult to admit and accept divorce. Cardi B and Offset is a good example of what women face in America a modern and civilized country. Cardi B was emotionally abused for a long time by her ex-husband Offset but she decided to call it off in December 2024 having had 3 children, right? This is proof that divorce is difficult for every woman regardless of race.
Annie and 2Baba of Nigeria is another good example, Annie refused to divorce a man who cheated on her several times and sired more than five children all over the African continent. She continuously protected her ill-mannered husband, who recently decided to shock the world via a recorded video that he posted on his Instagram account after a Netflix reality show Young Rich and Famous trended, the world was giving their views, “Annie and I are going through a divorce.” he said. Sincerely, why do women fear divorce and separation? These are the reasons:
Stigma
What will people say? Many women are afraid of what would people say about them. Cardi B being a celebrity was worried about what people would say. They see divorce as a failure failing to see the bright side of it. They see themselves as failures. Some would be told ” What can you tell us when you can’t keep a relationship.” this has made so many women in the world stay in abusive relationships.
Culture
In most countries in the world, culture has played a big role, women are viewed differently after a divorce or separation. Gender has played a big role and women tend to carry the heavy price. Looking at the internet trends and online abuse on women who have separated from their spouses it is evident that women are looked down upon and sadly the gender violence against women has been modernized and it’s now online Kanye West would openly say social media platforms when he broke up with Amber and decided to date Kim Kardashian. “Kim forced me to bathe a hundred times before having her,” Kanye said. This trend is influenced by culture in different parts of the world.
Wealth.
Women may fear divorce and separation because they don’t want to loose what they have worked for. They may stay in their toxic relationships because of investments they build with their spouses and they are at the peak of dividing the wealth into two which most men and women don’t like.
Parental Responsibilities.
Women would not choose to separate from their spouses because of fear of raising the children alone When children are young they often remain with their mothers and fathers can only be given visiting rights, this tends to weigh women down on focusing on developing themselves for this reason most of them would chose to stay on toxic relationships. Fear of becoming a single mum with a huge parental responsibility, no help taking charge as a mother and a father.
Conclusion
Every woman deserves the best in their lives. For you to become a better person always work on your mental stability by visiting a therapist to help you know where you went wrong, forgive yourself and your spouse, and acknowledge that you are not wrong by deciding to take a break, it’s normal for a relationship to go sour and that doesn’t make you a lesser person.
When going through a divorce, never let people’s opinions get into your head. Accept, advance and move on.